
By Miriam Karp
86th Street and Central Park West, Manhattan. 1972.
Fast moving, hustling, crowds, taxis blaring, high fashion struttin in style.
In the midst of the frenetic high-paced action is a calm island of tranquility, as a crowd gathers around a skinny bearded young man, wrapped in a paisley tablecloth, in lotus position, staring at his nose and radiating peace to the seekers who gravitate to feel the vibes. A guru, a swami, here in the Big Apple! Even hardened New Yorkers were bemused.
He does give interviews to the media, in a hand-sign language, not to break his meditative silence, the eastern techniques he has followed with unswerving discipline to bring him to this state.
Back up a few years
Swami was not raised in a Himalayan enclave, but in a typical American Jewish home. His name wasnt exotic either, just Gil Locks, a nice Jewish boy. A stint in the U.S. Marines in Japan was the first chink in Gils worldview of Western materialism. He was fascinated by martial arts and the Buddhist detachment, but headed for college and the road of business success upon returning to the States.
Soon Gil was living the American dream, with a designer home, luxury car and executive status. But the emptiness gnawed at him. When I make even more money, will I have to buy a bigger house? Is this what Im in the world for?
Barefoot hippies caught his eye. He cashed out of the business and joined the Sixties seekers for a deeper and encompassing truth. Hitchhiking through Northern California, seeking organic life in Mexico, he pushed beyond societys conventions and expectations. Gil ran into an elderly yogi who showed him an amazing movie of her guru in India.
Off to find the ultimate, Gil was soon on a plane headed to the gurus ashram in central South India. He absorbed the Hindu teachings and devoted himself with zeal to reaching the spiritual heights the path promised. Long years of deep meditation and extreme practices brought me no joy, just a stronger and stronger desire to find the Eternal.
Over time he saw the gurus discrepancies and perversions that contradicted their spiritual pretensions. He returned to America where I spoke the language and could help someone.
Meandering through raucous travels and adventures, Gil attracted other wandering souls. They said they got a special feeling from me. Something radiated from me that elevated them to think about G-d. The free spirits followed the wind, and a feeling of guidance, which led them across the country to a bench outside Central Park. Gil sat to rest, and felt magnetized to the spot. Others gravitated to the mellow energy, and the NY Times reported on the Central Park Guru Grooving on the Grass.
Fast forward a decade. Our intrepid idealist transformed his persona, and now resides in the Old City of Jerusalem, a short walk from the Kotel; a passionate and devout Jew. How did guru morph into gefilte fish and graggers?
Guru trip wears thin
I was meditating 23 hours a day. The highs were ecstatic and the lows were painful, with lows more frequent than the highs. Gil wondered, Why have I been stuck all those years in my chair for the little bit of good I am doing? He ventured into Christianity, but recognized its fallacies. He decided to try the Jewish commandments.
Hmmm, well, there is a commandment to put fringes on the garment corners. The Sages explain this means tzitzis, but Gil only knew the original verse in his Bible. Purchasing yarn for tassels in the local yarn shop, Gil earnestly tied one on each corner, including his shirt collar, shirtsleeve, and top of his pants. Looking like a couch cover, Gil proceeded to try more mitzvos with innocent devotion, and made his way to Jerusalem. Through the ensuing years of humorous and poignant adventures, Gil grew into the deep, grounded and true Torah spirituality.
Today, that intense devotion and drive to seek Oneness have found fertile ground, where it can embed the deep roots to face any wind. From his apartment in the ancient Old City, Gil goes to commune with his Creator at the sunrise minyan at the Western Wall. He shares his inspiration with students throughout the world, through his writing and website, thereisone.com. Innovative graphics illuminated with Chassidic teachings help illustrate the unity of G-d that brings all the multi-faceted creation into being. After many arduous years of struggling to find the Unity through the multiplicity of Eastern and Christian paths, Gil is especially attuned to this primal core of Judaism.
Gil has penned three books. He compiled a book on Gematria, the numeric my
stical meaning of the words of the Torah, which was approved by the Rebbe. His autobiography, Coming Back to Earth, is an entertaining recollection of his spiritual journey, especially informative for seekers ensconced or entranced by Eastern paths, as are his other works, Taming the Raging Mind and There is One.
Gil is well-known at the Kotels Chabad tefillin booth. With humor, warmth and love, he helps thousands of Jews, tourists, seekers, cool Israelis, soldiers, visiting politicians, to try this mitzvah. Making the experience personal and meaningful, he asks the person to picture everyone in your family, one at a time. Try to picture them with light on their faces and smiling. Pray for their well-being, and for everyone you love. Pray for all of us. Dont forget our soldiers, Jews in dangerous places, and those in the hospitals hurting.
Sharing lessons learned the hard way, Gil gives hope and direction to many. Why did I have to go through these long and torturous steps before I came home? he muses. Though he usually describes his days wrapped in a tablecloth with his hair tied in a knot on his head with humor, It was not really much fun to sit there in my hut in the woods, holding my hands clenched until they cracked and bled. Nor were those many months of having demons torture me times of great joy. But when called in desperation by a worried young man, whose Buddhist meditation started turning into voices and wrestling with evil forces, Gil could guide him as only one who knows the terrain can.
Rather than walk away from his past, its unique and crazy lessons are utilized to help others. Gils mission now is not to escape the movie and come to a place where the world just didnt affect you anymore, but to live up to what he has found to be the highest teaching of the Torah, encapsulated in the words of Rebbe Shmuel of Lubavitch. One ought to know the route to the supernal chambers, though it is not necessary. All you need is to help your fellow with a complete heart, to take pleasure in doing another person a favor.
| An elderly Jewish woman from Brooklyn goes in search of a famous guru. She takes a plane to India, then a boat up a river, and then hikes into the mountains with local guides. When she finds him he is in the middle of a long ritual, and the guru's followers won't let her see him. Eventually she reaches the hallowed portals. There she is told firmly that due to the long lines she can only say EIGHT words to the guru. "Fine," she says. She is ushered into the inner sanctum where the wise guru is seated, ready to bestow spiritual blessings upon his eager initiates. Finally the guru calls for the woman to be admitted. She stands before the famous guru. "Bernie," she says, "it's your mother, time to come home!" | |||